Starting 28 July 2025
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This week looks at calm, connection, and fairness at home and at school, from soothing phrases for tantrums to the ongoing debate over who pays for classroom supplies.
π¨βπ©βπ§ Parents News Summary
π£οΈ Calming Phrases
A child psychologist shares seven calming phrases that help children feel safe and regulate their emotions during tantrums.
π‘οΈ Understanding Coercive Control
New research highlights how some parents can unintentionally use controlling tactics that harm children's sense of safety.
βΈοΈ Pausing Careers for Teens
Some parents are stepping back from work to support their teenagers through the emotional demands of adolescence.
π The Overloaded Week
A survey of 2,000 parents shows packed weekly schedules, yet most remain committed to nurturing their children's unique interests.
π± Emotional Safety and the Demands of Modern Parenting
Child psychologist: Parents who are good at handling tantrums use 7 phrases with their kidsA psychologist who studied over 200 parent child relationships shares calming phrases that help children feel safe during tantrums.- A psychologist who studied over 200 parent child relationships found that calming, validating phrases help children move through tantrums faster.
- Phrases like 'You're having a big feeling, I'm right here with you' and 'I believe you' build trust and strengthen a child's inner sense of safety.
I was very fearful of my parents: new research shows how parents can use coercive control on their childrenNew research interviewing teenage victim survivors reveals how some parents use coercive control under the guise of discipline.- New research interviewing teenage victim survivors shows how some parents use coercive control tactics, including surveillance and humiliation, under the guise of discipline.
- Experts note that children are especially vulnerable to coercive control because they depend on caregivers and often lack access to outside support.
Parents stepping back from work to support teensSome families are pausing careers to focus on the emotional needs of their teenagers, mirroring how leave is normalized for newborns.- Some families are pausing careers so a parent can be fully present for a teenager, mirroring how leave is normalized for newborns.
- This shift reflects growing recognition that the teenage brain undergoes major changes requiring steady emotional support from parents.
New survey reveals the anatomy of a parent's overloaded weekA survey of 2,000 US parents of young children finds packed schedules but strong commitment to nurturing children's individual interests.- A survey of 2,000 US parents found the average parent gets only 18 hours a week to themselves, with the rest split between work and caring for their child.
- Despite the busy schedules, 96 percent of parents said they encourage their children to explore interests even outside traditional academics.
How do parents raise maladjusted children?A study following 422 children over eight years links helicopter parenting to emotional and social struggles later in childhood.- A study following 422 children for eight years found that helicopter parenting at age two predicted emotional regulation struggles by age five.
- Researchers say children need room to navigate small challenges independently to build coping skills, resilience, and social confidence.
π Teachers News Summary
π Who Pays for Supplies
A viral teacher video reignites debate over classroom supply costs as tight budgets push the burden onto educators and families.
πΈ Delayed Stipends
New York City Teaching Fellows report struggling to pay bills after promised summer training stipends were delayed.
π Wish List Debate
A Tennessee district asks teachers to stop posting classroom wish lists publicly, sparking discussion on school funding perceptions.
π» Funding, Fairness, and Support for Teachers
Teacher blasts parents in back to school debateA viral video reignites the debate over who should pay for classroom supplies amid tight school budgets and a teacher shortage.- A viral TikTok from a teacher criticizing parents who will not buy classroom supplies has drawn over 1.4 million views and reignited a national debate.
- The debate comes as NYC educators report spending hundreds or even thousands of dollars of their own money to bridge school supply budget gaps.
NYC Teaching Fellows await payment for summer trainingNew York City Teaching Fellows say they have not received promised stipends despite working long hours in summer training.- New York City Teaching Fellows say they have not received promised stipends of up to 4,500 dollars to cover summer living costs during training.
- Fellows described struggling to pay bus fare and rely on frozen dinners while completing a demanding seven week training program.
School district calls on teachers not to post personal wish listsA Tennessee school district asks teachers to stop posting classroom wish lists online, saying it creates a misleading impression.- A Tennessee school district has asked teachers to stop publicly posting Amazon wish lists tied to the district's name.
- The district's director said public wish lists can wrongly imply that schools refuse to provide classroom materials themselves.
Hamilton County Schools Foundation partners with Walmart for teacher school supply driveA local foundation partners with Walmart on a weekend supply drive so teachers can start the school year with free classroom materials.- In Hamilton County, Tennessee, a schools foundation partnered with Walmart on a weekend supply drive so teachers can start the year with free materials.
- The program gives new teachers free basic office supplies and lets returning teachers shop a supply hub twice each semester at no cost.
β¨ Extra Pearls
For Parents: Staying Calm and Connected
- Name the feeling out loud before offering a solution, this helps children feel heard first
- Keep your own voice low and steady during a tantrum, your calm becomes their calm
- Avoid threats or bribes in the heat of the moment, they teach fear rather than trust
- Protect small pockets of one on one time each week, even 15 minutes builds connection
- Let children solve age appropriate problems on their own before stepping in to help
For Teachers: Navigating Supply Costs
- Communicate supply needs clearly and early through official school channels rather than personal social media
- Partner with local businesses and foundations that run seasonal supply drives for classrooms
- Keep a simple shared list so families can contribute small, specific items rather than large purchases
- Advocate collectively with colleagues for stronger school budgets rather than covering gaps individually
- Celebrate and thank community donors publicly to encourage continued local support
Remember: A calm word at home and a supported classroom both grow from the same seed, patience.
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